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Dean Black states the obvious about network marketing is about relationships. I wonder why so many of us do tend to skip over the basic rule of building relationships first. If you are hunting instead of farming, you are working way too hard.
In business, as in sports, getting back to the basics is always the first step to winning and becomming successful.
Network marketing is fundamentally about relationships. Building strong relationships before you talk about your opportunity is one of the basic principles behind any successful network marketing strategy. I realize that’s an extreme simplification of a sophisticated concept, but that’s the point. In fact, it’s so basic that if you’re not careful you can skip right over it.
Sometimes we don’t think too much about the simplest principles that are the fundamental building blocks in our approach to doing complex things. For example, when was the last time you really thought about how to drive a car? Most likely it was either when you learned to drive or the last time you taught someone else how to drive. But driving a car consists of a series of simple steps that combine together and result in a complex action: getting you from point A to point B without getting in an accident. It’s a big deal.
Building relationships in network marketing is the same thing. Building a sustainable long-term relationship with the people on your list consists of a series of simple steps that keep people eager to connect with you on a regular basis.
You will want to make sure that you never take your list for granted. Think of your list not in terms of a database of contact information. Instead, think of each email address, mailing address, phone number, etc. as a real person because that’s what it is.
To be successful in network marketing you have to build and sustain relationships. In a mutual relationship you are giving each other value. Both parties are getting something positive out of the relationship, otherwise it is not sustainable. This is a voluntary exchange of value between two people. You both need to work at it for it to succeed, and you both will get something out of it.
As in the example above the steps to build a relationship with people are simple and they will create a picture of what the person wants and needs are.
1. Be Curious about the other person.
2. Ask the person to tell you about themselves.
3. Be sincere in your responses. Just be honest.
4. Be Patient and do not try to skip right into a sales pitch. Resist the temptation to sound like a salesman.
5. Be yourself. Do not try to fake any of this, it will not work in the long run.
By asking questions and being curious you will help them to find the answers to their problem themselves. You want to be in a supportive role only and you cannot tell them what their problems are. They need to come to this by themselves and the way you will help them with this is to ask them questions and be curious about them.
When this is done correctly then they will be asking you for help in solving any problem they have. This is how you position yourself as a leader. This is also the difference influencing people and manipulating them.
This is the essence of network marketing and when you master this process then you will be on your way to being successful.
A shout out, peace and hugs to Dean Black.
Attraction Marketing Coach
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